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This American Life coming to Portland

A couple of days ago I read this post at Metroblogging Portland which described an impending controversy over the venue that our local public radio station, OPB, chose for an upcoming episode of This American Life. You can read more about the show here, but This American Life is an NPR radio show hosted by Ira Glass. Each episode has a theme that is illustrated via the telling of several real-life stories. I’ve long been a fan and, judging from the content of the show, it would not be a stretch to imagine that Mr. Glass is sympathetic to gay/lesbian political issues.

Thus, many were surprised that OPB chose New Hope Church as the venue for Mr. Glass’ visit to Portland. You see New Hope actively supported the campaign to pass Ballot Measure 36 which outlawed gay marriage in Oregon. New Hope not only donated $5000 to the campaign, their pastor actively preached from the pulpit in support of Measure 36. Therefore, it is not hard to imagine that those of us who support equal rights for gays and lesbians might consider New Hope to be “the enemy”, as it were.

So many were surprised, in fact, that the news was posted all over the local “progressive” blogs including the influential BlueOregon. Local newspapers also picked up the story including The Oregonian, who reported that OPB had no intention of changing the venue. Now their actions had moved from “unwitting” to “intentionally unreasonable” and the blogosphere reacted accordingly. Many people emailed Mr. Glass’ management and one weekly newspaper, the Portland Mercury, successfully contacted his management and informed them of the situation. Undoubtedly, Mr. Glass was completely oblivious to the situation prior to this because he simply trusts the local NPR affiliates to do the right thing. Unfortunately, OPB had not done the right thing this time.

It did not take long after that for OPB to post this on their blog explaining that OPB and and Mr. Glass had jointly decided to dump New Hope in favor of the Oregon Convention Center. Putting aside the question of whether this was an actual joint decision, OPB further antagonized the blogosphere by accusing them of “spreading the usual blogosphere load of rumors, misinformation and hype.” Since I wanted to judge for myself whether their accusation had merit, I followed their link to the original blog post that first brought the controversy to public attention. What a surprise to find that the blogger in question was a woman that I met this summer at a very small blogger BBQ hosted by PAgent. Tina and I had a tremendous time at that BBQ and really enjoyed Lelo and her partner’s company. They also had their delightful dog, Wink, with them as well as his litter mate, whom they were dogsitting.

The fact that I knew this person made the controversy personal for me but I had not yet become involved, preferring to just read about it but abstaining from commenting either here or on the other blogs. That came to an end when my favorite conservative blogger, Rob Kremer, decided to take the opportunity to blast the left for being “intolerant” because of their actions in the matter. I read Rob’s blog whenever he updates it (I have an RSS feed for it) and have long considered him a reasoned conservative voice. I personally dislike the unconstructive tone that most of the right and left take in the blogosphere. Ultimately, my goal is to seek the truth although I won’t deny that I will often try to sway others to my side during the search. The point is that the goal must be the seeking, not the swaying. Too often both sides are too concerned with “winning” the argument and resort to all sorts of logical fallacies in order to succeed. Mostly I try to ignore that aspect and pay attention to the meat of the argument. And that’s also why I try to find reasoned arguments on both sides so that I can make an intelligent choice. Rob’s blog has often been the reasoned argument on the right for me and that is frankly why I was so disappointed that he chose to depart from his normally constructive approach.

So I left him a comment on how I felt on the matter and expressed my extreme disappointment in him. He responded respectfully enough and again referenced the argument he was getting over at BlueOregon. I’m not a big fan of BlueOregon, particularly for their treatment of Oregon Senator Smith, but I didn’t really see anything approaching intolerance. I did, however, agree with the point Rob made there about calling someone a bigot who disagrees about this issue and posted a comment on BlueOregon indicating so. I continued on with the conversation on both blogs before deciding that I had enough to say that I should just post it here.

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Rob Kremer on parenting

Oregonian Rob Kremer usually writes about political issues on his blog, but yesterday he wrote this incredible piece about his daughter who recently graduated. One of the commenters there called it “lyrical” which I think is an apt description. He digresses from his ode briefly to ruminate on the nature of parenting:

Woody Allen once said that 90% of success in life is showing up each day. I think that is very true about parenting. Let’s face it – none of us really know what we are doing. We are just winging it, dealing with all the various issues, situations, conflicts and decisions by making day-to-day judgments about what seems right. Showing up – being there – doesn’t take any particular genius, but it just might be the most important part of parenting.

There isn’t any magic formula. Great parents can have kids who stray. Lousy parents can have great kids. Bottom line, we do what we can, and we are all hoping we get lucky.

But what all parent should know is the difference between mspy vs spyrix to avoid children find a way around typical filtering programs and internet monitoring.

Wow. I couldn’t agree more with that last part. Several years ago I asked my mom about the huge responsibility of parenting, particularly about how mistakes you might make could have a huge negative impact on your children’s lives. She said that although she realized that was true, she didn’t think about it much and didn’t regret any of the decisions that she made as a parent. To paraphrase her: “You can only do what you think is right and move on.”